In life, there are good moments and there are bad moments. You can go from feeling like you are on top of the world to being down in the dumps. Sometimes people feel even lower than the lowest moments imaginable and experience depression. If this sounds like you, then this advice in this article should be helpful.
One way to deal with depression is to “fake it till you make it”. This means to act, walk, talk, and eat as if you were not depressed. If nothing else, faking it will mean that other things in your life are not neglected while you are depressed. At best, the behaviors will help re-route your brain and actually help cure your depression.
One way to treat depression is with prescription medication. Every year new ones come out too, so if you tried one years ago there are many alternatives now. Most of them work by attempting to restore the chemical balance in your brain as they believe depression is caused by a chemical imbalance.
Have realistic expectations. Often depressed people fixate on some unrealistic goal that they believe will cure their depression. For some it is money, for others it may be longing for an idealistic Mr. or Miss. “Right” to spend the rest of their life with. While having a goal is good, keep it realistic. Instead of being unhappy with your current job and longing to win the lottery, take college courses or a vocational program to increase your income potential. If you are lonely, get out and get involved with activities you enjoy. Even if you don’t meet someone, you will have fun; and if you do meet someone, they are much more likely to have similar interests to you unlike a random stranger in a bar.
Regardless of whether you experience light sadness or periods of prolonged and deep depression, it would be wise to establish a working relationship with a professional. They will be able to properly diagnose you, and decide if you will need any kind of medication. In addition, they can inform you of the kind of depression you’re suffering from.
A helpful tip for anyone suffering from depression is to make an effort to cut crying, complaining and lengthy discussions of sadness out of your daily routine. Constant expressions of unhappiness may cause those around you to attempt to provide a sympathetic ear, which may actually end up perpetuating the depressive cycle. By trying to remain positive, you will avoid sinking into a rut of self-pity.
Do something that you truly enjoyed doing when you were a child. As we grow up, we sometimes try to act like we are too mature for certain fun activities. If you loved swinging on a playground or playing board games, feel free to let your inner-child out and do those things.
One basic way to reduce depression is to get horizontal and have sex. Sex is known to release endorphins and when we are faced with long term depressing situations, we tend to forget about it and ignore our needs as human beings. Sex is one of the best all around total body relaxers and a great way to feel good about yourself.
If you have children and you suffer from depression, it is important that you do not let them see that you are suffering. Children feed off of their parents words and actions and by them seeing you in a depressed condition, they may start to get feelings of depression themselves.
Refrain from any negative thoughts, and be sure and write then down when they do come into your mind. In this way, you can re-examine just why you have these thoughts, how they make you feel, and how to substitute these distorted thoughts with positive, happy ones. Only when you understand your negative thought patterns can you rediscover positive thinking.
Over indulging in food may seem to provide some immediate relief but in reality it will only lead to longer term disappointment and worsen depression. What ever is making you depressed will not be remedied by eating so try and find some other way to comfort yourself, one that you will not feel guilty about later.
Furthermore, life is full of good and bad moments. When you reach the lowest of the low, you may experience depression. If this is the case, then all you have to do is remember the advice from this article. Keep it in a place where you can easily refer to it when needed.